I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the illusion that you’d get married and live happily ever after is a myth. Unquestionably, Marriage is Hard work. The Breakfast Club’s Dj Envy and Wife Gia Casey recently sat down with Essence Live to discuss marriage, infidelity within their Marriage, and much more.
You often see Dj Envy and Gia Casey living lavishly on Social Media. The couple often jet sets with their 5 gorgeous children to different islands and resorts. The couple have been married for over 20 years and couldn’t be happier. Surprisingly, Dj Envy admits that there was no scandal when he cheated with the Lhh star. He says that he came clean about his infidelity to wife Gia.
During the interview, Dj Envy and Gia Casey optimistically talks about how they kept God first during times of hardship, who helped them during those times, and how cheating made them stronger.
Dj Envy on their Sex Life…
Dj Envy: I mean, we have five kids. And I think for us, we just try to keep it spicy. We try to do things outlandish. And not to sound crazy, but she’s my everything. She’s my wife, she’ll turn into my slut. Everything we want to do in bed, we do. I’ve been a cowboy. I’ve been Barack Obama. I’ve been a police officer. And one time, I was Maxwell.
Dj Envy and Gia Casey on how they overcame infidelity within their Marriage.
Dj Envy: God Absolutely. I think our faith has everything to do with it.
Casey: Everything. 100%.
Envy: You know, I’m not going to say I wasn’t into church and God before, but when that incident happened, it just opened our eyes as a family; not just me and my wife. To the point where, we pray every morning before I go to work. Everything in our family is based on our faith now.
The couple claims that Tyrese played a role in preparing them for marriage.
Envy: Not only did Tyrese give me good advice. Tyrese heard me on the radio and heard of the pain that I was going through at that time. And I didn’t know him, and he called. He became kind of like, our counselor and he would call my wife and he would come. Tyrese was so genuine. He was making me a better man.
Social Media + Their Kids
Envy: The crazy thing is, 20 years ago, I wouldn’t have had to tell our kids [about the infidelity] because they would have never found out. But we had to tell our kids, ahead of time.
Q: What was the first thing our kids said?
Casey: When we told them what? Oh!
Envy: They said, ‘Dad, how did you get caught?!
How Gia found out about him Cheating + How Infidelity made them Stronger + Social Media.
Envy: Social media and a bluff. She bluffed and said she knew something that I thought she knew so I wound up telling on myself.
Casey: I’m a good bluffer.
Envy: But actually, and I hate to say it, but it has made our relationship stronger. We’re closer. It’s like we’re on another level.
Casey: It’s crazy, because before I found out, there were no red flags. He was, very good. He treated me like a Queen. I had everything that I wanted. He was affectionate, sweet, complimentary, he did everything he was supposed to do. And then, a little bit of common sense kicked in, and I was like a dog with a bone.
But since I found out, and God became a part of our relationship and our marriage, and we put him in first – everything followed behind that. Just like he said, I could have never imagined being as happy as I am now. And I thought I was happy before! I couldn’t imagine that connection between someone else.
Full Interview with Essence Live Below.
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